Of Glances Backward and Growth

14,783 Days Alive

7 Days Until Christmas Eve

1 Possible Future Road Trip for the Holiday?

I am looking back over all that has happened in 2025. It’s not all sunshine and roses, but there was growth.

Okay. So. Since January 2025, and in no particular order, I have:

  1. Gone back to college for my Associates in Medical Billing and Coding
  2. Broke up with a long-term partner, turned forty, drove from IN to WI with my cat & 1/3 of my life in the back seat of my car, met my older ( by 7 months!) half brother on my biodad’s side and moved in w/him & his hubby in the space of 24 hours
  3. Made the Dean’s List (twice!)
  4. Got laid off from my full-time job
  5. Decided to self-partner until I have my life put back on a track where I like where I’m going
  6. Got a part-time gig 1099ing for a paralegal
  7. Resolved to start my own LLC
  8. Started not being the only one who was primary cook in the home
  9. Got in contact with a few old friends
  10. Got a 2nd part time job (~2wks ago)
  11. Met my younger half brother on my biodad’s side and broke bread with my older brother Lucian (also his half sibling) and his hubby, the new younger brother Ellis, his hilarious wife Maeve, and their little one, Myles
  12. Got accepted into the Alpha Beta Kappa Honor’s Society for my college
  13. Made at least one new friend here in WI
  14. Got to visit the local botanical gardens with my former datemate, Llama, who came up for a week to see me
  15. Made plans to walk for my college graduation in Fall 2026
  16. Put really pretty curtains up in my window, both to block light and help control temps in my room
  17. Got to visit the local zoo with Lucian, Briana, and Llama for Lucian’s birthday
  18. Checked out at least 3 books a month from the local library
  19. Visibly lost weight, but I don’t own a scale so who knows how much
  20. Asked for help when I needed it
  21. Am in the process of going through every Amazon list I had and purging most silly, useless things
  22. Made a friend at work
  23. Started crocheting a rug for my room

So. A whole fucking lot going on.

I made a massive pot of chicken enchilada soup for dinner this evening. It was AWESOME!

In any case, I am slowly compiling a Goals to Meet list, along with the steps I would need to complete them! I hope to have it up by NYE 2025.

Take your meds, folks!

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